Thursday, December 31, 2015

A Wonderful Thing

A Wonderful Thing
My husband doesn’t usually bring his work home. It is only when things are going extraordinarily well or extraordinarily bad that he talks about his work life. And so I get snippets of the best and the worst aspects of his work life. He celebrates when his idea comes to fruition or when his machines work as they should. He despairs over crashing computer programs. Sound familiar? I think many people have similar aspects of work that give reason to celebrate or to feel discouraged.  
Did I mention that he is a scientist (a physicist to be exact)?
Being a scientist has its ups and downs like any other profession. Will his equipment work? If not, he will have to fix it or find someone who can. Will the work be done on time? He spends more time at work on the days immediately before deadlines. Will the work be good enough? Breakthroughs are exciting and gainful! The more high-quality work he does, the more he gets to do, which is good for his job satisfaction as well as our family’s health and well-being.
Conversely, being a professional scientist also requires a type of work that is different from other professions. Scientists are paid to discover things that have never been found before. The work modern scientists do is deeply entwined with historic science, which means they are responsible for knowing details of previous discoveries and how those previous discoveries inform future discoveries. Like Isaac Newton, in 1676, saw further by standing on the shoulders of giants, scientists in the twenty first century must consider how their work fits into the landscape of science.
The most unnerving thing about scientists passing information between each other is that they are bilingual. They use mathematical symbols interchangeably with english (or whatever is their native language) in their prose. When I explained this to my college students I used to joke that it is due to laziness. It is easier to write “x 0” instead of “the limit as x approaches zero.” So not only are scientists observing and studying things that have never been observed or studied before, they are talking about it in a way that makes it difficult for people who are not fluent in mathematics to participate.
However, more likely than not, you are not aiming to participate in professional science; nor is your child (for now). So you are lucky that Albert Einstein was right when he said, “Science is a wonderful thing if one does not have to earn one’s living at it.” Without being bogged down in the logistics of being a scientist, you have a unique opportunity to enjoy it. You are not responsible for discovering something that is new to humankind. It just has to be new to you. What is even better is that you are not limited to the world of academic science.
You are not bound to reading and writing articles in peer-reviewed journals or textbooks. You can read children’s books like “My Light” by Molly Bang or listen to “Fossil Fuels” by Jeff and Paige to learn about the energy cycle. You can watch television programs on the Science Channel or the Discovery Channel or other videos on YouTube like “Smarter Every Day.” You can listen to podcasts. You can play online games like the ones developed by Physics Educators at the University of Colorado. In short, you can learn from any media you choose!
Plus, in order for you to learn about or do science on your own, you do not have to work in highly specialized laboratories. You can start simply by playing with smart toys (yes, grown-ups can play with toys). You can learn at home in your garden or in the kitchen with Alton Brown as your guide. You can find and visit a Science Museum near you. You can even learn some science on vacation by visiting National Parks or volunteering. No matter what avenue for learning you choose, you have the pleasure of learning science as a playful, independent person.
What’s that? You want more direction? Consider planning your own lessons by perusing the Next Generation Science Standards and finding an activity to match. Maybe you just want to work your way through the free online lessons at the Khan Academy. And if you really crave a teacher-student relationship, you can enroll in continuing education programs or college courses.

Whatever way you choose to learn science is fine by me. The point I want to make here is that science learning is available to everyone, not just scientists. More importantly, I want to invite you to see science learning as a playful endeavor. It is something you can do and enjoy alongside your young child.
Think about bath time. It is something you will do with your child from the time he or she is an infant for many years. It will become part of the daily routine, at times merely offering the structure you need to make it to the end of a challenging day. At other times it will be a delightful place to connect with your child. It is during those times when you are happily enjoying the splashes and the bath games of a young child that I invite you to learn. See how simple it can be by reading the “Invitation to Learn Buoyancy” I made for you:

Invitation to Learn Buoyancy
Context: Babies, toddlers and preschoolers seem to have two favorite places to learn about buoyant force: in the bathtub and at the lakeshore. You will probably be right there with them to keep them safe but if you can step into their world you can learn some physics alongside your young child, too.
Purpose: To learn about buoyancy.
Growing with the Child - Levels of Experimentation
Baby Experiment: Throw or place something in the water. Observe if it sinks or floats. State your observation.
Toddler Experiment: Building on the baby science, collect the items from the water (if you can). Sort them into groups based on their buoyancy - sinkers, floaters, etc.
Preschooler Experiment: Before throwing or placing items in the water, guess what will happen. Will it sink or will it float? Continue with the toddler experiment.

Levels of Understanding: Benefits of Learning with a Grown-up (or as a Grown-up)
My favorite thing about learning with my kid is that I can read and do internet research to learn more or answer questions that arise. If I want to then I can think deeper, considering more complex things. Here are some things to guide your investigation into buoyancy.
Guiding Questions
❤ What is the most interesting, most important or most useful thing about buoyancy?
⨳ What are the limitations or advantages of studying buoyancy in a bathtub? In a lake? In a river?
՞ What if the bathtub was filled with olive oil instead of water?
⊜ How would you explain what you’ve learned to an older child?
Picture Books: A picture book is worth a thousand academic words.
Online Learning:

With this small amount of encouragement I hope you feel drawn to play and to learn with your child. As I see it, the benefits of accepting my invitation are numerous. Here are some of the benefits I consider the most valuable:
  1. Learn science at your pace. Buoyancy is a topic that can be visited and revisited in small amounts over the course of your young child’s life.
  2. Learn science at your convenience. The experiments are things you can do within the routine of your daily life. They can easily be expanded during a vacation to the beach. The follow-up research can be done with a trip to your local children’s library or while you watch TV in the evening.
  3. Learn science to your satisfaction. You choose what you will study, when you are done and when you are ready for more. There are no deadlines, no bosses, no stresses from broken equipment that could determine your career.
  4. Learn science with your child. We are constantly looking for ways to enjoy “quality time” with our children. An invitation to learn science provides you a little direction for ways of being open and active in things that interest your child.  
In all reality I realize that a micro-burst of time and energy is about all you have for learning science. And that is OK. Pint-sized learning is better than none at all. That being said, I hope you accept my invitation to learn science. Because science is a wonderful thing.

Monday, December 28, 2015

Airplane Travel Ideas for Young Children (or People who are Children at Heart)

I have chosen a handful of toys and activities based on the following criteria:
  • *.....They are the right size to take in a carry-on
  • *.....They are mechanically interesting
  • *.....They are new to my family

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Every Night: A Winter Poem

Every night they ask, 
“Can we go on a twinkle light walk?” 
And every night I answer, 

The rest is on Fat Brain Toys...

Not Seeing Santa

"Is there a story to tell about our trip to see Santa? Yes. Of course, there is always a story to tell. But my story is not a typical story of seemingly endless waiting and crying children. My story begins in memories of long ago and stretches into my life as a parent."

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Thursday, December 17, 2015

No Means No

"What I offered was a nugget of parenting brilliance. It was one of those rare times that I felt like I knocked it out of the park as a parent. (It seems like nine times out of ten I falter or flounder through this journey of parenting.) And here it is…"

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Monday, December 14, 2015

The Relatives Came

My mother-in-law should get a lot of credit for the treasures I write about on Preschool Engineering. She is the one who introduced us to Magna-tiles and keeps us flush with great books. "The Relatives Came" is no exception. This book arrived for my family just in time for the holiday travel and it is one you should know about.

It is a story about all that happens when relatives come to visit from far away. It begins with the far-away relatives packing up and making the long long trip. Once the far-away relatives arrive, everyone greets each other, share space, and make plans for more visits. Between the prose and the pictures, this book depicts the way the energy changes through transitions toward and away from each other.

As a yogi, my favorite part is about something small yet profound - breathing together:
"They are up all our strawberries and melons, then promised we could eat up all their grapes and peaches when we came to Virginia.  
But none of us thought about Virginia much. We were so busy hugging and eating and breathing together."
That breathing together. It is so different. It is special and invigorating in some ways, intrusive and suffocating in others. And everyone experiences it...the visitors as well as the hosts. By acknowledging these experiences, all the way down to breathing together, we are able to be mindful of ourselves and of our guests, moving in and around each other with as much grace as possible. And this book brings that to light.

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Tinsel Games

"One of the hardest lessons I have learned since becoming a parent is that I cannot (and should not) control everything. 

Before having children I organized my life with checklists. I would write down my list of things to do and then do them in a timely manner. I held myself accountable to doing things well if I were to do them at all. Once I had completed my task to my satisfaction then I could cross it off my list. 

After becoming a mom I still organize my life with checklists but I do not do them in a timely manner. Everything seems to have turned into a group effort, which means tasks are not necessarily done well or even to completion. A good case in point is decorating."

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Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Rainbow Dress-Up

When your child thinks out of the box, it is not a surprise to see him wearing socks on his hands. These rainbow sleeves are actually sold as leggings. Sometimes they are even worn as leggings. But sometimes they are superhero sleeves.

Find yours on Amazon today! And I would love to hear how your child plays with them!!

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Child at Heart

"There is an expression about being a "child at heart." It usually means that a person maintains some playful part of his or her life that is carefree, joyful, and uninhibited by the responsibilities of growing up. What it rarely refers to is the amazing and unabashed way children learn. I like to think that being a child at heart includes all of those things. I also believe that we can support each others' childish qualities (and inspire each other to become unabashed learners) when we when we give gifts."

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